EP508: Heather Whelpley - How To Break All The Rules & Create A Business That Works For You

“Recognize whatever rules were handed to you and then make a conscious choice about them and then make that choice. Know that your worth does not come from anything outside of them. ”

Today's guest, Heather Whelpley is an award-winning speaker and the author of An Overachiever's Guide to Breaking the Rules: How to Let Go of Perfect and Live Your Truth. Her journey from being an overachiever to discovering her true worth is truly inspiring. She shared her story of excelling academically, working in the corporate world for a decade, and eventually transitioning into entrepreneurship. Heather's transformation occurred when she realized that she had been putting excessive pressure on herself to prove her worth through achievements and productivity, it then led her to the profound insight that our worth is intrinsic and not tied to external validation.

Heather discusses the importance of challenging societal and cultural rules that often lead to burnout and a constant pursuit of success. She emphasized the significance of finding a balance between work and personal life, allowing for rest, creativity, and connection. Her message is a reminder that we can rewrite our own rules and redefine success in a way that aligns with our values and well-being, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life. Heather's wisdom and insights have the power to transform the lives of entrepreneurs and individuals alike, encouraging them to prioritize self-care, authenticity, and the pursuit of a meaningful life. 

Expert action steps:

  1. Take a step back and start to notice your own rules.

  2. Take that step back and say, 'What's my actual definition of success?'.

  3. And then to say, ‘okay, if this is my definition of success, how can I choose a new set of rules and start living by them?’. 

Make sure to check out her book: An Overachiever's Guide to Breaking the Rules: How to Let Go of Perfect and Live Your Truth available on Amazon.

Visit Heather Whelpley’s website, https://www.heatherwhelpley.com/ for more valuable guidance on breaking free from perfectionism and living your truth. 
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